I always feel like there's some behaviour that we're all capable -
we have our inhibitions
protecting from indulging in certain appetites or developing certain appetites.
Bill Pullman
“I was always intrigued by the idea of
Bringing things together that are considered taboo or Risqué
and bringing them together with something of high elegance and sophistication.”
~Dita Von Teese
The definition of Kink is not specific. Kink is anything other than what is considered conventional (vanilla) sex.
BDSM is not always sexual. It can help heal emotional wounds and relieve anxiety. It offers playfulness and challenges boredom. .
Whether you are starting to explore or you are ready to expand, you might be surprised to learn what your true core desires reveal.
To surrender to your core desires you must understand what they are in the first place.
Kink or anything other than “vanilla” sex is often considered weird, deviant, lustful, and for some- sinful.
Lots of reasons can cause even the thought of kink, BDSM, or a fetish to invoke shame that prevents exploring your deepest desires
Group sex, Ethical non-monogamy, or atypical relationships can be extremely fulfilling but has unique needs for support and guidance.
BDSM is gaining interest by those that may not fit the stereotypical image that comes to mind. Taboo entices.
.Somewhere in you exists a place- a side of you, that is longing for something
you aren’t even sure exists.
Do you know what it is? Would you like to know?
Core Desires are part of who we are, they don’t change over time. These deep rooted emotions, once tapped into, can be healing but I understand that there may be feelings of shame or fear associated with them as well. These goes much deeper than what we like to “do” or have done to us. Our core desires are how we want to feel, what emotions we want to be in during our most pleasurable moments.
What may feel like a mystery has a proven formula and with my help and guidance, we can solve it together. Knowing what you want and need, how to ask for it, how to honor your own and others’ boundaries, learning new ways to connect and attune to yourself and your partner- all of this is what sets
extraordinary, mind-blowing, unforgettable , soul-quivering lovers
apart from average lovers. What’s your desire?
