What’s the intimacy feel like?

  • Just You

    Individual coaching is designed to enhance and nourish your personal growth. Showing you what connection and intimacy feels like while using experiential modalities. Fulfilling somatic work along with talking-it-out allows your mind and body to feel safe in a place where your desires and passions can be celebrated. Relationships can be messy- taking control of your sexuality and learning to feel empowered during intimacy can help clean them up.

    Connect

  • You Plus+

    You Plus+ includes your partner/s. It is often said that communication is the key to successful relationships- but it goes further than that. Humans are complex; I take into account attachment style AND individuation simultaneously. We all want to feel connected when intimacy feels safe. How do you create safety? We want our partners to feel loved by us as much as we want to fee loved by them. How do you receive that love? We’ll practice these skills until everyone feels confident.

    Relate

  • Your Community

    As a queer person, I know that we often seek out those that not only accept us, but fully embrace and appreciate our differences. We may feel safest when a person can recognize that our needs are not defined by our sexuality. Attunement can sometimes feel masked. “Does anyone really know me?” As a coach, I am open to all sexual expressions. I recognize and admit that internalized homophobia and transphobia exists and yet work my ass off to overcome it.

    Empathize

  • Neurospiciness

    Neuro-diversity may mean that you have a unique way of being intimate and attuned to others. Feeling empathy may be overwhelming. Sensory overload can throw us off even when we do want sex. Our sexuality and gender identity may be less defined. We’ll practice intimacy and connection together in a place specifically designed for practicing. You’ll receive well-communicated direct feedback with compassion as we work on each of your goals.

    Engage

“Relationships are

all there is.

Everything in the universe only exists

because it is in relationship

to everything else.

Nothing exists in isolation.

We have to stop pretending we are individuals that can go it alone.”

-Margaret J. Wheatley

Connection

Sex is a natural part of our human experience but without connection, we can become disinterested, turned-off, and can even experience pain during sex.

Unlearning habits is not easy, but some behaviors may be inhibiting your ability to connect with others. A sex coach can unearth what is standing in your way and give clear concise feedback.

You don’t need connection to have sex but connection is a part of good sex. You’ll receive feedback about what you can do to create the deep connections that you are yearning for. Physically, emotionally, and mentally you can create the atmosphere to allow the connection to and from your partner to grow and flourish.

Everyone is searching for belonging, we all want to feel like we fit in- somewhere. Our human need of acceptance can bring isolation when a disconnection is not healed. Learning how to repair and reconnect with yourself is the starting point to be able to connect vulnerably with others.

Sexuality and our core desires can seem like a mystery to be solved. Unlocking the truth to what makes you tingle, shudder, and love sex, can be empowering and liberating. Your feminine needs to feel connection and intimacy may seem like a stark contrast to your deep desire to be ravished and left breathless. We’ll unveil the desires that can create your peak sexual experiences.

Fantasy, curiosity, and desire- what does it all mean? You may be surprised to know these are about more than just physical satisfaction. We’ll explore and I’ll help you learn how to get your relationship and connection needs met so that sex is not just satisfying, but toe- curling ecstasy.

Claim it!