Upcoming events
The Roundtable Talks- April Meeting
The Roundtable Talks is free from gender binaries and welcomes anyone that can identify to being a lesbian. Join us in an organic discussion about all topics related to sex, intimacy, relationships, dating, and coming out within the lesbian sub-culture container.
Led by KC’s finest and our only Somatic Sex Coach- Heidi Oh
The Pleasure Principle
The Pleasure Principle: Unlocking Her Pleasure with Confidence
This is not your typical sex ed class.
Taught by a professional intimacy coach and sex educator who’s worked with thousands of women, The Pleasure Principle is designed for cisgender, heterosexual men who want to understand women’s bodies better, boost their bedroom confidence, and master the art of giving incredible pleasure—without shame, guesswork, or ego.
We’ll start by comparing what you already know about your own body with what you need to know about hers. Using anatomy props and visual aids, you’ll learn why so many women are left unsatisfied—and how you can change that.
Then we’ll dive into the three primary ways women receive pleasure:
Oral touch
Manual touch (hands/fingers)
Penetrative sex
You'll learn what actually feels good for women in each area—and what doesn’t—based on real experiences, feedback, and the subtle body language you might be missing.
We’ll wrap up with an open, guided conversation about connection and attunement—the often-overlooked keys to being a truly satisfying lover. You’ll leave with a new understanding of how to tune into your partner’s body, stay present during intimacy, and create more trust, responsiveness, and pleasure—together.
About your instructor:
Hi, I’m Heidi Oh—a certified sex and intimacy coach, public speaker, and somatic educator. I’ve spent years helping people feel more confident, connected, and alive in their relationships and sex lives. I’ve worked with thousands of women and couples who want more—not just more sex, but more closeness, more honesty, and more satisfaction. My work is educational, body-based, and heart-centered—and it’s always about helping people feel good in their skin, and in their connection with others.
Come with an open mind. Leave with real tools, real confidence, and a whole new understanding of pleasure.
Class Objective:
To give men accurate, body-based education and practical tools for giving women pleasure—while building confidence, skill, and connection through clear, shame-free learning.
What You’ll Learn:
A practical breakdown of female anatomy—and how it compares to what you already know about your own body
Why so many women struggle to reach orgasm (and what you can do differently)
The do’s and don’ts of oral, manual (hands/fingers), and penetrative pleasure
How to tune into your partner’s subtle cues and body language
Why emotional connection and somatic attunement matter—and how to build both
Confidence without performance pressure—just solid skills and understanding
This is a class for men who want to bring more pleasure, connection, and confidence to the bedroom. Come curious. Leave empowered.
2026 BDSM Couple's Retreat (Puerto Rico)
Do you long to take a break from the world around you, and find a temporary escape from the pressures and distractions of your everyday life? Many people in our modern world crave a space to experience pleasure and fulfillment without the burden of being who they are supposed to be or who society demands that they be.
BDSM brings a psychological eroticism that may more difficult to tap into at home.
Let’s relax and unwind while we explore the pleasure driven, safe, consensual, mystical realm of BDSM.
The Roundtable Talks
For anyone that identifies as a lesbian- discuss topics involving lesbian culture, dating, relationships. family, society, and of course- lesbian sex!
😘I facilitate this group as a peer, keeping the conversation flowing, and protecting the diversity of the space at the same time inviting others to validate through empathy and compassion. 🆘
😎My goal is to create a community where we can trust one another on a level of 100% realness, where authenticity is celebrated and encouraged, where you aren't too much- you are always enough! Please use this group as a resource for lesbians but also come practice and learn how to speak your truth and listen compassionately as others do the same. Share without fear and learn how to listen without judgment.
My ultimate goal is that this group becomes a vault. (if you want to know more about what I mean on that- I'll see you in March!)🤩
REGISTRATION: https://www.simpletix.com/e/the-roundtable-talk-tickets-207817
"A roundtable discussion is a collaborative meeting where all participants have an equal opportunity to contribute to a focused topic, typically facilitated by a moderator and involving diverse perspectives from experts or individuals with relevant knowledge on the subject matter, with the key principle being that everyone has an equal voice in the conversation; essentially, it's a structured discussion where everyone gets a chance to share their thoughts and ideas on a specific issue"
Sex Ed for Gen X
Gen X women in Kansas City who are missing something when it comes to sexual satisfaction, knowledge and/or education about sex, our bodies, knowing what we like or what gives us pleasure. We didn't get the juicy details from mom or grandma! Sex education for older women in Kansas City. Sex can feel amazing! and if it's never been that great for you then you should definitely come!
Register Here
The Roundtable Talks February Meeting
For anyone that identifies as a lesbian- discuss topics involving lesbian culture, dating, relationships. family, society, and of course- lesbian sex!
😘I facilitate this group as a peer, keeping the conversation flowing, and protecting the diversity of the space at the same time inviting others to validate through empathy and compassion. 🆘
😎My goal is to create a community where we can trust one another on a level of 100% realness, where authenticity is celebrated and encouraged, where you aren't too much- you are always enough! Please use this group as a resource for lesbians but also come practice and learn how to speak your truth and listen compassionately as others do the same. Share without fear and learn how to listen without judgment.
My ultimate goal is that this group becomes a vault. (if you want to know more about what I mean on that- I'll see you in February!)
REGISTRATION The-Roundtable-Talk-tickets-February 21st 2025
"A roundtable discussion is a collaborative meeting where all participants have an equal opportunity to contribute to a focused topic, typically facilitated by a moderator and involving diverse perspectives from experts or individuals with relevant knowledge on the subject matter, with the key principle being that everyone has an equal voice in the conversation; essentially, it's a structured discussion where everyone gets a chance to share their thoughts and ideas on a specific issue"
Empowered Work Shadow Sessions (body doubling) (Copy)
Have you ever wondered why you can get more done, stay focused, and feel motivated while you work on goals? It's because the NeuroDivergent brain acclimates to the environment. The need for social interaction is not punished so you don't feel like you are having to live up to unrealistic expectations. Also, having a mentor, like me- your favorite empowerment coach, gives you some accountability w/o pressure and I give positive feedback during these sessions. There are clear start and stop times so anxiety about the unknown is minimized.
Empowered Work Shadow Sessions (body doubling)
Have you ever wondered why you can get more done, stay focused, and feel motivated while you work on goals? It's because the NeuroDivergent brain acclimates to the environment.
The need for social interaction is not punished so you don't feel like you are having to live up to unrealistic expectations. Also, having a mentor, like me- your favorite empowerment coach, gives you some accountability w/o pressure and I give positive feedback during these sessions.
There are clear start and stop times so anxiety about the unknown is minimized. Come join me every Monday 11am-1pm. Let's work on some goals together! Suite 314 $20 per person per session. Please sign up on my website- heidioh.com/schedule and look for the picture that matches the one for this event. Limited to 3 attendees. $20 is due at the time of registration.
The Roundtable Talks- January Meeting
For anyone that identifies as a lesbian- discuss topics involving lesbian culture, dating, relationships. family, society, and of course- lesbian sex!
😘I facilitate this group as a peer, keeping the conversation flowing, and protecting the diversity of the space at the same time inviting others to validate through empathy and compassion. 🆘
😎My goal is to create a community where we can trust one another on a level of 100% realness, where authenticity is celebrated and encouraged, where you aren't too much- you are always enough! Please use this group as a resource for lesbians but also come practice and learn how to speak your truth and listen compassionately as others do the same. Share without fear and learn how to listen without judgment.
My ultimate goal is that this group becomes a vault. (if you want to know more about what I mean on that- I'll see you in January!)🤩
"A roundtable discussion is a collaborative meeting where all participants have an equal opportunity to contribute to a focused topic, typically facilitated by a moderator and involving diverse perspectives from experts or individuals with relevant knowledge on the subject matter, with the key principle being that everyone has an equal voice in the conversation; essentially, it's a structured discussion where everyone gets a chance to share their thoughts and ideas on a specific issue"
The Roundtable Talk (November meeting)
The Roundtable Talks is designed to foster an environment of safety and openness, allowing people in the lesbian community to explore their questions about lesbian/ queer culture and relationships freely. In this inclusive space, Heidi Oh, an expert Sex Coach, answers inquiries with empathy, compassion, and professionalism. Participants can expect a blend of informed perspectives and experiential practices, empowering them to delve into their deepest desires and navigate the intricacies of their relationships. Through this dialogue, attendees will find not just answers, but also an affirmation of their experiences, challenges, and growth.
The Roundtable Talk (October)
The Roundtable Talks is designed to foster an environment of safety and openness, allowing women in the lesbian community to explore their questions about culture and relationships freely. In this inclusive space, Heidi Oh, an expert Sex Coach, answers inquiries with empathy and professionalism. Participants can expect a blend of informed perspectives and experiential practices, empowering them to delve into their deepest desires and navigate the intricacies of their relationships. Through this dialogue, attendees will find not just answers, but also an affirmation of their experiences, challenges, and growth.
The Roundtable Talk
The Roundtable Talks is designed to foster an environment of safety and openness, allowing women in the lesbian community to explore their questions about culture and relationships freely. In this inclusive space, Heidi Oh, an expert Sex Coach, answers inquiries with empathy and professionalism. Participants can expect a blend of informed perspectives and experiential practices, empowering them to delve into their deepest desires and navigate the intricacies of their relationships. Through this dialogue, attendees will find not just answers, but also an affirmation of their experiences, challenges, and growth.
Event Five
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